Cough Cough Cough.. Sick-O!!

I am sick!!! sIck-O. And the irony of it all is that I am at work typing this.
The problem of taking MCs is the moment you're genuinely sick and needs to just be horizontal all day long to recuperate, you would have used all your legit MCs for days when you ae NOT sick or well enough for you to go work but didn't coz you had plans to have dates with ur ayang or you have arranged for project K stuff on weekdays or even have physios coz they open only on weekdays right. Yikes! (The dates with ayang is totally worth it I must add. *wink*)

I'm heating up. Keep vomiting nothing. Tried to cough up this phlegm which at the moment makes 80% of the the total liquid in my body system right, but I ended up puking my lunch instead. I think I can feel ab muscles on my tummy slowly forming with all the coughing I do. I'm like breatheless right. COUGH COUGH! See, I just coughed again. Hahahaaa!


Dah lah, enuf ranting. Cough!

▬ ma ayang ▬

I can't sleep. I miss ma ayang.
He must be at home now, resting after knocking off at 2am.. Dun wanna disturb lah. For sure he's resting, or surfing, or playing games, or checking online stuff for Project K, or...... hehehe..

Was going through my past entries as early as Feb 2007. I am reminded of how fortunate I am after reading those posts. From being single and not knowing who this person I'm supposed to share my life with to getting married in less than 4 months!!!! Anything can happen as long as ALLAH wills it to happen.

I wanted to fall in care rather than fall in love.. Imagine that! Not only have I found someone I absolutely care about, I'm head over heels IN LOVE with him. Dat's getting more than what I asked for and I am indeed grateful to GOD Almighty for answering my prayers.
Marriage of a lifetime. Insya Allah, Amin.

3 months and 20 days to go....

Bersama Mu.................. Khursus Day 1

This Way!

Ma ayang and I went for our Day 1 Marriage Course last Sunday 6/07/2008. Day 1 was a long day (9 to 5.30pm ok?) filled with much fun, laughter, and head-shaking, forehead-slapping remarks by an educator who happens to be of DKK descent (Darah Keturunan Kecantikan. waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? hahahaaa! Cikgu Sheikh Feroz is one funny pakcik. Corny to da max but he's funny also lar.)

Kesian ma ayang had to walk to Marine Parade CC coz direction-challenged me confidently alighted 1 bus stop before the CC. Morning exercise lah.. Good fer the body and mind. Right-o!
Dah lama tak gi classroom, sampai sebu2 perot tu... nyah nyah nyah... !!!

May seems like we're just waiting for the bus, but if u look at the bigger picture, we're actually waiting to start our future together, Insya Allah. :D















Waaaaat??!?!?!
Too early in the morning to talk deep deep stuff. Hahahahaa!
Even ma ayang bengang!
haha! Ok ok . We're waiting for bus 31. :)


Well anywhos.. bigger more important matter at hand. Knowledge's gained.
Syukur Alhamdulillah. I learned more about myself through his eyes and I got to know him better also.
One thing stuck to mind is when the Cik Rosli, our educator, said something in the likes of women taking a longer time to adjust from being a fiance to a wife /mother. But guys get serious once they become husbands. They kinda suddenly wake up and be more fcused thus not saying so much the sweet lovey dovey stuff they used to say aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time before the couple get hitched.
The problem starts when the newly bacome wife is still pining for those words and sayang sayang phrases...... and she's not getting it. She may then feel neglected and all that negativity and stuff......................

Lesson 1: after getting married, you need to realise his level of affection by his ACTIONS and not so much his words anymore. It's normal. He doesn't love you any less just because he doesn't say it as often as he used to. He comes home to you... Protects you.. Provides for you and the children.. = He loves you!!!
Hey, if your hubby still acts all mushy even after marriage, all I can say is you SCORED! But if your hubby acts like the character above, he's just being human. He's normal. :) To me, we all need to recognise normalcy especially in a marriage. If you know something's normal, you wouldn't even try to change/fix it. You just accept and move along. :D


Lesson 2: I learned that one of ma weaknesses is being blur. I need to sharpen my instincts man!


Lesson 3: Andy may say he's not into it but he's one ON mochi! He's more sporting than me. I learnt that when Cikgu Feroz made us do some corny acts just to wake us up! I still have goosebumps thinking about it. Urgh! But Andy's such a sport. He's just the drive that I need!
Sayang sayang, sayang saaaaaayang sayang. In a class of 42 other strangers. Hmmmmm...


Lesson 4: I learnt that not all couples talk about how many kids they plan to have. This is an eye-opener fer me personally coz I just assumed all couples would have discussed such matters beforehand. We want 3. Mutual agreement. Yesssssa! Insya Allah. Amin!


Lesson 5: This is a good one.
The day your hubby comes up to you and say "Yang, I need to talk to you..." the wife should drop EVERYTHING she's doing like cooking, washing, attending to the kids, to listen to what the husband has got to say.. He may need help. Men are generally self-solvers so the moment he asks for YOUR help, this only means this is your chance to be a good partner and help him along.
He is already btwn a rock and a wall when he asks for your help so try your best and listen. Awesome stuff rite. I didn't know that!


Lesson 6: Whenever you're wrong, admit it.
Whenever you're right, shut up.


Hahahaaa! Took this in class. Made ma ayang malu oni. heheee..

Lesson 7: Andy's ma hero!! He saved me when I was stumped and couldn't give the requested example to the cikgu in front of the whole class. 44 ppl! Dat's a big class. Andy saved me when he provided the example for me. Phew!!! I know we're a tagteam and not versus each other because of that incident. Sayang awak lah!


Lesson 8: It's better to write down your frustrations when both tengah hot. Situation when the quarrel becomes too intense, better to have a cool-down time. Writing helps you to filter your words and get straight to the point w/o too much emotions involved. Plus it helps to prevent saying stuff you know you'll regret after.


Dat's the end of Day 1.
Final 2nd day is next Sunday. Insya Allah I'll post the stuffs I've gained for my benefit and maybe for the benefit of yourself who may be reading this. I'm looking forward to the next one as it touches on hardcore topics like Financial, Sex in a marriage, Living with In-laws and Separation/Divorce. Insya Allah I'll share again in due time.



Wassalam. Be happy!

Bilik Penantin ! ! Room make-OVER

I've got 30 minutes before I continue with one of the thousand tasks of Project K' which is painting the walls of my proposed wedding room.. The room that will be witness to PURE MAGIC. waaaaaaaaaat?! Hahahahaha..! I cannot believe I'm deciding to publlish that phrase. Hope nobody reads this. Ahem.
Well anyways, I'm not exaggerating when I say there are 1000 things to do in preparing forr a wedding. Even if the couple decides to have a SIMPLE aka Budget kinda wedding, the amount of work that goes into making That Day is really the same as one would have say a grander aka ridiculously X wedding. Difference is to me is ju$t how much you will $ave moneywi$e, dat's all.
You will still be succesfully married. You will still be appointed succesfully as a wife/husband to your partner for the rest of your lives.. Insya Allah. Dat's really the main obejective isn't it?
I would choose marriage of a lifetime to wedding of the century any day, but that's just me see..
:)

Gosh. I can blabber. back to my cat.
I woke up at 10 right and Found abah has already started paimting my walls.. Aaaaaaww! He's the gandest dad ever. Problem is though, he's started to paint my walls the wrong colour......!
The Belleck-colous supposed to be for our living room... I hated to pint out the mistake since he has tirelessly painted completely my ceiling but it's my wedding room. The room that will be witness to PURE MAGIC. dat's rite!!! :D
So I highlihted the mistake and rolled up my sleeves to paint. I didn't go work. Urgent leave, MC, MIA, call it whatever you want. All I know is that I have my dad painting the room all by himself and tehre are over 10 ppl (I hope) to answer never-endimg calls. So I'm at home now helping my dad. Good enough reson to me. I had to take picture of Phase 1 of the whole process. Phase 2 is the ceiling whicjh we have not touched on yet. We need to waait for the walls to dry. I just rememebered ma Sheens now. She's so sweet. Offered to help paint and all. Sorry Sheens, if you're reading this, we started w/o you. My dad too kanchiong lah. He's lovingly kanchiong. heheheee.... I love my dad!!!!

So here're some photos to remember the whole process.. Precious moments I tell you.


Best dad in the WWW (whole wide world) !!!


Siap ngan safety goggles taaau..!

Note to myself:
More pictures are posted on Multiply coz it's friggin' "not fast" to upload pictures here.

A is for ACRA. B is for Business. C is for Company.....

I was reading thru Xiaxue's blog and I must say she is one cool girl lar. Something about that sino chick that attracts you to just keep on reading posts after posts when you're supposed to answer calls after calls especially when they are 4 calls waiting to be answered as I'm typing this.

Yeah~~~~ me at work. Yeah~~~~ I answered only 16 calls since 8.30 in the morn.
Yeah~~~~~ It's already 4.37pm now. HAHA!!

Dunno what's wrong with me man.. Seems I'm on "IDLE/Lazy ASS/ Dun give a TOOT" mode since Monday. Work's a breeze.
It really is... Blah!

I just love work! I'm at a corporate position where I feel I can excel or at least be happy performing my duties at work. I'm trainning newbies man. How awesomely cool is dat??!!!

SYUKUR ALHAMDULILLAH!

Of course, being a trainer may not be a biggie when compared to being a Team Manager and the likes but this is what I've been aiming for since my Singtel days and I finally get to be one.
*Clap! Clap! Clap!* :D

Cedebah..! Macam paham. hahahaa!!

I realised I've been very blessed since I joined the dog-eat-dog world since ITE. The roles I wanted, I've gotten. Sure, there must be 1 or 2 dolts in every workplace (Ppl like, I dunno, Fanny... Freakin 'ell Theresa!!!!!!! Stoopid dumbass-wipe. Dat's right! She suck ENUF fer me to conjoin the 2 words!!!! Only fer her. Hahahaaa!)

Oh well, bottom line. All'$ gooo0d. And I cannot be more thankful for all the rezki Allah ha$ $howered upon me. THANK YOU GOD!!!!!

p/s: think I'll be renewing my contract again this August. Insya Allah.
Oh yes, I may be signing in blood this time. HAHA!

The meeting that made it official. If we were playing Monopoly, everyone would have a "move 1 step up the corporate ladder card". Like there's such a card to begin with. DUH!
oh yah, except for our dear Alicia though, she missed a turn. heehee..


When they're not in action, The POWER PUFF GIRLS dine in at Swensen's Parkway Parade.
Strict-Dun-mess-with-ME Nur, Talk Fast Sheens, Loudly Lorraine, our Mother Ali-si-a, Ue Seok Chin Fanny,I-wanna-be-YATI-when-i-grow-up and Ah Moew Ah Kath. Checher Aishah is not in the picture. Cey~~~!


Sheens and I were fit enough to attend the meeting but too sick to report work that day.
Hahahaa! Got such thing ar?? Can goof around some more..




Picture perfect moment.. Verrrry nice. But Ah Kath's hair look oily a bit ar.. hehehee..*winkz*